A Love Letter to My Craft — 22 Years in the Making
The hair industry has changed so much since I first picked up my shears in 2003.
Trends come and go, prices rise and fall, stylists come and go — but one thing has always stayed the same: my devotion to my artistry.
For me, it’s never been just hair.
It’s emotion.
It’s connection.
Some people see a haircut.
I see men and women rebuilding confidence after heartbreak, a mom finally taking time for herself, a bride glowing on her wedding day, someone going through cancer — and yes, even a husband going through a divorce, trying to stay strong and be a good dad while life keeps throwing punches.
We talk a lot about toxic products — but sometimes we forget how toxic people can be, how cruel we can be to one another, men and women alike.
Behind the chair, you see it all — the heartbreak, the hope, the truth.
I’ve been there for all of it — behind the chair, in nursing homes, at funeral homes, and everywhere in between.
This career has given me purpose — and at times, it’s taken pieces of me too.
They don’t tell you in beauty school that this job will cost you — relationships, friendships, sleep, and sometimes even your peace.
They also don’t tell you about the financial struggles — the cancellations, the slow seasons, the rising product costs, and the reality of having no insurance or safety net — all while trying to stay creative, inspired, and sane.
You wear every hat, and still show up with a smile, ready to make someone feel beautiful.
I work in a studio unlike any other — a safe space with no judgment, where you can show up exactly as you are and leave feeling like yourself again — maybe even better than before.
Sometimes it’s just a fresh haircut that clears old energy and opens the crown chakra — releasing what no longer serves you and welcoming new energy, clarity, and confidence. ✨
Over the years, I’ve learned that being in the service industry is about more than skill.
It’s about compassion, patience, humility — and boundaries.
Yes, clients leave for cheaper prices or the next biggest salon.
And no, you can’t please everyone — especially when honesty isn’t what they want to hear.
But honesty is what they need.
And God forbid your color isn’t perfect, or there’s still a touch of brassiness — but trying to please everyone, especially middle-aged women, 😳😆isn’t as simple as it seems. (Just ask their ex husbands if they’ve ever managed to satisfy them — we all know how that usually goes!) 😉
And yet… even with the laughter and the lessons, I hold nothing but gratitude.
Every single client — those who’ve stayed and those who’ve moved on — has shaped who I am.
Some people are meant to stay for a season; others make room for deeper connection and better energy
Then & Now — From 2003 to 2025 and Beyond
Becoming a hairstylist in 2003 was a completely different world.
Back then, it was word-of-mouth, business cards, and long days behind the chair.
Now it’s algorithms, reels, AI filters, and social media “fame.”
The tools have changed — but what matters most hasn’t!!
I still believe in the power of authenticity, referrals, and human connection!
You don’t need to be the latest and greatest — you just need to be the realest.
Authenticity
Because beauty is skin deep — and no haircut, color, or extension can fix the parts of yourself you refuse to love.
That’s why I’ll always keep it real.
With myself. My clients. My artistry.
Peace starts within — and when you find it, it radiates outward.
True beauty begins with self-awareness and love.
The rest — the shine, the glow, the color — is just the reflection of what’s already inside.
The beauty industry — and the economy — have shifted drastically.
While small businesses close every day, there’s always another salon, lash bar, or Botox boutique opening on every corner.
Even as costs rise, people still crave beauty.
They still crave connection.
They still crave feeling good about themselves.
When you become conscious — of what’s in your beauty products and the toxicity of a culture that profits from self-doubt — you start to see it’s never been about price.
It’s about integrity.
It’s about awareness.
It’s about truth.
To everyone who’s supported me, trusted me, and shared your stories with me — thank you.
To those who’ve left, thank you too — you’ve made space for clients who align with my energy and artistry.
And to every stylist still showing up, still creating, still pouring love into your craft — keep going.
I’ve built something real.
I love my life — every messy, beautiful, exhausting, rewarding part of it.
When I’m gone, people may not remember every haircut or color —
but they’ll remember how I made them feel. ❤️
Hairstylists are the new healers and light workers of our generation — the bridge between beauty, energy, and transformation.
Haircuts can be more than just a change in style — they can mark a profound shift in energy, a renewal of self, and a moment to release the weight of the past.
I’ve had the honor of witnessing both men and women come to me ready for transformation — stepping into new chapters of their lives, seeking clarity, healing, and intention.
To everyone who’s trusted me with your transformation — thank you for allowing me to witness your growth.
Seeing your energy shift and your readiness to embrace life’s next steps is the deepest fulfillment of my work.
Here’s to 22 years of art, energy, and evolution —
Keep shining. Keep creating. Keep loving your art.
Because the world needs more of that kind of beauty. 💗
Jennifer 🤘🏽⚡️
